CYDC Employee Celebrates 30 Years of Protecting Childhood and Preparing for Adulthood

Every year, in addition to helping to manage the day-to-day activities of the children and youth entrusted to us, our caring employees help them as they experience special milestones in life.

Andrea Recoma cuts into her anniversary cake

This year, one of those employees experienced a pretty special milestone of her own.

Andrea Recoma is a 30-year employee of the Carolina Youth Development Center. She started working at CYDC in 1981 shortly after the organization became an independent nonprofit. Andrea has spent her full tenure with CYDC at the same group home on our North Charleston campus.

Her position as a residential counselor at the group home is an important one that finds her spending time with the youth in our care as they prepare to begin their days. This may well be the most significant part of the day for us all, as it sets the tone for what happens throughout the rest of the day. Andrea’s presence at that time, coupled with the stability her tenure provides, is a welcome comfort to this group of 8 to 12 teen boys, many of whom come to us from home environments that were unsafe and not stable.

Andrea’s supervisor, Lew Rogers, Senior Residential Manager at CYDC, spoke of her involvement at the home at this critical part of the day.

“She gets them up, gets them ready for school. She gets their breakfast for them. [I know] they appreciate her consistency.” Lew went on to say that the boys respond well to Andrea, adding that “they look forward to the time” with her.

In an industry where turnover is high because of the stress of the positions, Andrea’s anniversary is indeed worthy of recognition.

“Thirty years in this business is one thing. Thirty years at one facility is unbelievable. It just doesn’t happen in this field,” Lew said after explaining that turnover for similar positions is typically 3 to 5 years. The position is challenging because, “These guys are on the front lines, day in and day out.”

Andrea’s dedication to the boys in her care hasn’t gone unnoticed by the staff at CYDC, who wanted to celebrate her commitment to the organization. The team here threw a surprise celebration in Andrea’s honor to express their gratitude for her loyalty.

“We felt like we needed to honor that kind of commitment and dedication. She’s very dedicated to the kids,” said Lew Rogers, Andrea’s supervisor.

Lew said Andrea is a model employee who is reliable and doesn’t complain.

“She’s a very trustworthy person, and you just appreciate that in this business.”

According to Lew, Andrea was shocked when she came in on a recent day off to find a surprise celebration in her honor, adding that “She was not expecting anything like that.”

We had some help from Jason Lewis and Scott Cloud, the manager and owner, respectively, of The Barbecue Joint in old North Charleston and the Knightsville area Publix in making the party a success.

“On behalf of the hundreds of young men whom Andrea has helped to raise over the last 30 years, we are grateful for her personal commitment to them and to CYDC,” said Barbara Kelley Duncan, CEO of Carolina Youth Development Center.

Preparing for Adulthood: Graduates Achieve Milestones

Graduation is certainly a well-deserved rite of passage for teenage children everywhere. However, for children who have been victims of abuse, abandonment and neglect, the odds are often against them. At Carolina Youth Development Center, we are proud to celebrate two of our children who have beaten the odds and are preparing to embark on a very bright future.

John* is just like any other teenage boy – he is an avid baseball player, loves girls and wants to succeed in life. Due to years of abuse, however, many of his dreams had begun to fade. John came into our care in the fall of 2010 after having been in a treatment facility for issues related to his anger, concentration, and extensive history of abuse. He was brought to our Oak Grove group home to help him adjust back into a less structured environment. Since arriving at CYDC, he has learned impulse control, independent living skills and ways of dealing with his anger towards abusive family members. John has developed healthy relationships with various staff members and peers and is better able to manage his anger, his anxiety, and think through situations before he acts on them. He has overcome feelings of worthlessness and loneliness and has developed positive social skills and job interview skills. sing his newly developed technological skills, he designed and printed his own graduation invitations. This fall, John will begin college, an achievement he never imagined one year ago.

Sue* is a vivacious young woman full of spunk and a continuous smile. She loves to play basketball and is a captain in JROTC. Upon arrival at CYDC, however, her story was a bit different. Sue had suffered from serious neglect and was forced to grow up too quickly. She was very angry toward others and was often disruptive. She was brought to our Ledford House group home and placed in anger management classes. Through hard work and by learning to trust others, she has made a complete turnaround. In the past, she would have reacted to a negative situation without thinking. Now she is able to process her feelings before acting and consistently engages in positive interactions with peers. She has become a leader on campus and has developed strong friendships with both staff members and other young people. Through her work with CYDC staff, she has developed a roadmap for her future which includes college and the military. She looks forward to her future now.

During the first week of June, this young man and young woman will walk across the stage with their classmates while their CYDC family sits cheering in the crowd. There will be “high-fives,” hugs, and tears of joy. But most of all, there will be pride as two of our own have stepped out on the road to success.

Bowl for Kids’ Sake brings out Bigs, Littles and Supporters

There were plenty of smiles to go around on a rainy March 26 when area Bigs and Littles joined friends and employees of Big Brothers Big Sisters (BBBS) for the annual Bowl for Kids’ Sake. The event, held at Dorchester Lanes in Summerville, drew support from businesses like Intercontinental Hotel Group (IHG), Kohl’s and American Eagle Outfitters.

American Eagle Bowl for Kids' Sake TeamWith three area stores participating, American Eagle has been involved in Bowl for Kids’ Sake for the past four years. On a national level, the retailer’s foundation, called AE Better World, donates both time and money to Big Brothers Big Sisters Bowl for Kids’ Sake, and locally, the team was happy to get involved.

“It’s a good cause, and we want to give back,” said Jennifer Walworth, who planned the American Eagle’s local involvement.

While morning bowling sessions included area Bigs and Littles, children from various CYDC programs enjoyed an afternoon sessions.

More than 150 tri-county children are on the waiting list for mentors. Money raised during Bowl for Kids’ Sake helps BBBS to match the children with caring adult volunteers by providing funds to support the effective recruitment, training, coordination, and recognition of volunteers.

For over a decade, Bowl for Kids’ Sake, the annual fundraising event for Big Brothers Big Sisters (BBBS) of the Carolina Youth Development Center, has been the largest community-wide event supporting BBBS.

We’d like to offer a warm note of gratitude to our event sponsors this year.

InterContinental Hotels Group Publix Firehouse Subs American Eagle Outfitters Kiwanis Club of Mount Pleasant A&E Digital Printing Blackbaud

In addition to the sponsors shown above, we would like to thank for the following companies for their support:

  • AGFA
  • BP Fabric of America
  • C.E. McKenzie Associates, LLC
  • Charleston School of Law
  • CiCi’s Pizza of Summerville
  • Citadel Communications
  • CPM Federal Credit Union
  • First Federal of Charleston
  • Ilderton Contractors
  • K-Con, Inc.
  • Kohl’s of Summerville
  • Paychex
  • Pratt-Thomas Walker
  • Ryland Homes
  • Tumeq, LLC

Though the fun of Bowl for Kids’ Sake is over–there’s still time for you to get involved! You can host a Wii bowling party of your own, having fun with family and friends while helping to raise funds for this great cause. For more information, email Amy Ware at aware [at] cydc.org or give her a call at (843) 266-5218.